How to make him come back

Guys are strange creatures, they always want what they cant have. If you plan to make your ex boyfriend want you back, then you have got to make yourself tantalizingly unavailable to him. and to do this, you gotta be strong. But then, be sure you were at your best while you guys were together, unless you're lucky enough to eat your cake and have it...........

-The first thing you have to do is send a clear message that you have accepted the break up and you are now moving on with your life. if you have any of his belongings in your possession,, send them back . Do not deliver them in person.
The best way is to parcel them up and have them sent to him. Do not enclose any letters, he'll recognise the stuff and get the "i'v finished with you" messaqge loud and clear.
-Never call this guy. Never send lovesick messages through your friends. No text  messages, emails, nothing.....Ever! As difficult as it may seem, you gotta do it. i mean, anywhich way, there must be a  hurt. But then, most times, the best way to get people's attention is to stop giving yours.
-Until he calls you, keep all communications from him as brief as you can. Be friendly and polite but answer his questions as shortly as you can. "How are you?" "Fine, thanks. you?"
Never elaborate on what is happening in your life and dont act as if you're overly interested in what is happening with him either. if he's talking too much, politely cut him short. you can say your mum or boss is calling you or that you have another call waiting. Tell him that you'll get back to him but ofcourse,never ring him back. He has to feel that he's actually lost you.
-If you are going to be tantalizing to you ex boyfriend, then you do have to remain visible to him. Maintain same social circles and hang out at the usual places. When you go out,plan to have a very good time and genuinely have as much fun as you can. Let your ex see that you do not need him to enjoy yourself. Show him that your social life is on track,  but be decent about that. Please dont get drunk when you hang out. drunkenness will just say 'out of control' to your ex. He should see that you're in charge of yourself and your happiness.
-The key to getting your boyfriend back is feel good about yourself. One of the best ways women feel good is to look good. Make sure that anytime he sees you, you look fantastic. You'll have an extra confidence when you look good and he'll definitely notice.
An added bonus of looking good and exuding self confidence is that you'll attract attention from other people too. Your girlfriends will be full of compliments and the  guys willl be swarming like bees to honey. Your ex is bound to feel a twinge of jealousy and possibly regret too.
When you ex sees you in this new and positive light, he wont be able to help but try and reclaim what he instinctively feels is his territory. He wont be able to stand that the new and improved you could get taken by someone else if he doesnt act quickly.

The only question then will be, "Do i really want him back afterall?"