- Firstly, accept that 'yeah i love this person'. You know why? because you can not heal a thing by saying its not there. Denial is a prison of self-deception. So you have to accept that.
- Realize that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If someone is not interested in you it is in your best interest to find someone who does love and adore you for who you are. Know that you are worth it, and there are plenty of people who love you. Never settle for someone who is not treating you and respecting you the way you deserve. That will mean you settling for less.
- In my case, I know I deserve the best. I tell myself "He isn't worth my love, he's too blind to realize what he's doing to me so I guess that's that. For crying out loud, I am Priceless. He doesnt know what he's missing and by the time he realizes, i'm far gone".
- It's not about getting over a person, it's about feeling good about yourself. It's about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. If this other person doesn't feel the same way, it doesn't really matter. its such an unfortunate situation whereby you get to listen to no one but the you in you. So,'you' are the one that matter most here.
- Try and walk off. You'd wanna keep them around as friends but you can only stand on that if you're pretty strong and most times, this thing we call emotions are far more than the physical strength. Advice-Don't even give them the privilege of friendship because you'll suck yourself back into the delusion. Do things for yourself, keep busy, bury yourself in work and keep waiting for what you deserve. Don't do what I have done.
- It is strange when you are hurting from rejection, to hear someone say move on things will be fine. No matter how much you love him, he never loves you back. For all those wondering what went wrong Just stop wondering say it really aloud "HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO ME". Only when one stops chasing and pursing someone who doesn't love you, will you open the door to that perfect person who will love you back with the same intensity that you will love him.
- Try not to be in contact cos its almost like an addiction. You think that one little text or a call will do no harm but the pain when he doesn't reply or pickup your call will just make things worse. Tell yourself you're stronger than this.
- There is one more thing I can recommend. There are times when you feel very weak and feel you need to talk to that other person even though they may have just hurt you again, you don't know why you want to talk to them, you just do. Like i said, its like an addiction. I've been able to get by these weak moments by writing down exactly what I'm feeling at the time, it comes out in a jumble of feelings and thoughts, some not so pleasant, but in the end it actually helps and I don't feel to call the person.
- Actually, you cant get over someone you love just like that but trust me, you can try to move on and give space to fall in love again.
Thursday, 14 June 2012
Getting over a lost Love
How do you get over someone when they do not feel the same way?????????????
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