Thursday, 8 March 2012

How to woo a Lady

Heeeeeey! its been a while. Sorry sweeties, been trying to get u guys the best. and guess what????? I've got it. A friend was telling me a friend of hers says he cant woo a girl. i refuse to accept that. Now let me say this: Any man can sweep a lady off her feet, no matter where, how or when. Now here are some tips. i know our guys can be so so rigid but believe me, this is easy if you really want that girl.
-Show interest, and show her that you would like to get to know her and you were happy to meet her or talk to her. Make sure you talk to her because I've noticed these days, guys do more staring than talking.
-Look into her eyes when speaking to her. this will make her see that you are really taking interest. just be careful not to get lost in her eyes when she's talking , otherwise the only thing you will have to respond with is "wow! you've got a pretty eyes". Believe me, she's tired of hearing the same thing from every other guy.
-Compliment her: Most guys are so rigid. Don't compliment her about her eyes,beauty, blablabla in the first meeting itself. Instead,compliment her on something not so obvious like "i like your co-ordination or composure" is much better than " you're so beautiful, are you a model? did heaven just loose an angel?" or you can be playful about it and say  " you've got nice eyes but mine are nicer"
-Don't ease the tension: What am i tryna say? Do not give  room for bore. once you make your good moves,  she may say  things like "i like you" or "you're funny". Most guys may loose their guard and say "i like you too". Don't! instead, ginger up the tension. Ask her if she"s flattering you just so you'll go home with her. Be a bit flirty but nice.
-Keep in touch: call her, text her but please, not necessarily everyday. So you don't become a pest.
-Be sensitive and caring. she doesn't always have to talk, most girls don't like to talk or ask, they just want you to be sensitive to their needs(emotional and financial). if you truly like the girl.,its no big deal to attend  to those.
-Lead the way: She wants to be the wooed and not do the wooing , so be the first to initial any touch(non-sexual and sexual), but please do not be in a hurry to initiate the touch. be the one that comes in first for the kiss.(most girls wouldn't mind coming in first for the kiss though). i must also warn that when you initiate the touch and she's not responding, be sensitive enough to stop. she will respect you for that. Never ask for ideas for what to do on the date.make plans and also have a back up plan. if she knows of something better, she will tell you, believe me. Let me say this too "once you get a girl to go on a first date with you, the rest is up to  you."
-Tease her- teasing a woman the right way demonstrates confidence and humor. for instance, if she's walking behind you as you enter a restaurant or  pub, turn around look at her sternly and say "stop following and staring at me". interpret anything she does,as if she's hitting on you. at a point, she might  give you the "what the hell does this guy think he is?". don't bother about that,just play your cards well.Whisper in her ears. Girls love this. She might act like "ew! whats this?" But when she goes home, she'll think about it.
-If you have little siblings, nieces or nephews, show her that you really care for them(at that time, she's thinking of how you'll take care of your own kids. hmm!) but don't make her feel if she finally dates you, you'll care for them more than her. play with  them, watch over and protect them, show the girl that they look up to you.
-Dress nicely: Guys please please and pleas try to look good. use an attractive cologne. if necessary, be very hygienic with her.
-Make her laugh : Girls love guys with a great sense of humor. That doesn't mean you shouldn't take anything seriously , or else, you'll come off as a clown.
-Always show appreciation.
-Give care for everything she says.

Now if all these don't work(it should though, except you are not doing your homework well), then you can leave your comment or email us here; pricelessgr8@yahoo.com .