How to make him come back

Guys are strange creatures, they always want what they cant have. If you plan to make your ex boyfriend want you back, then you have got to make yourself tantalizingly unavailable to him. and to do this, you gotta be strong. But then, be sure you were at your best while you guys were together, unless you're lucky enough to eat your cake and have it...........

-The first thing you have to do is send a clear message that you have accepted the break up and you are now moving on with your life. if you have any of his belongings in your possession,, send them back . Do not deliver them in person.
The best way is to parcel them up and have them sent to him. Do not enclose any letters, he'll recognise the stuff and get the "i'v finished with you" messaqge loud and clear.
-Never call this guy. Never send lovesick messages through your friends. No text  messages, emails, nothing.....Ever! As difficult as it may seem, you gotta do it. i mean, anywhich way, there must be a  hurt. But then, most times, the best way to get people's attention is to stop giving yours.
-Until he calls you, keep all communications from him as brief as you can. Be friendly and polite but answer his questions as shortly as you can. "How are you?" "Fine, thanks. you?"
Never elaborate on what is happening in your life and dont act as if you're overly interested in what is happening with him either. if he's talking too much, politely cut him short. you can say your mum or boss is calling you or that you have another call waiting. Tell him that you'll get back to him but ofcourse,never ring him back. He has to feel that he's actually lost you.
-If you are going to be tantalizing to you ex boyfriend, then you do have to remain visible to him. Maintain same social circles and hang out at the usual places. When you go out,plan to have a very good time and genuinely have as much fun as you can. Let your ex see that you do not need him to enjoy yourself. Show him that your social life is on track,  but be decent about that. Please dont get drunk when you hang out. drunkenness will just say 'out of control' to your ex. He should see that you're in charge of yourself and your happiness.
-The key to getting your boyfriend back is feel good about yourself. One of the best ways women feel good is to look good. Make sure that anytime he sees you, you look fantastic. You'll have an extra confidence when you look good and he'll definitely notice.
An added bonus of looking good and exuding self confidence is that you'll attract attention from other people too. Your girlfriends will be full of compliments and the  guys willl be swarming like bees to honey. Your ex is bound to feel a twinge of jealousy and possibly regret too.
When you ex sees you in this new and positive light, he wont be able to help but try and reclaim what he instinctively feels is his territory. He wont be able to stand that the new and improved you could get taken by someone else if he doesnt act quickly.

The only question then will be, "Do i really want him back afterall?"

Getting over a lost Love

How do you get over someone when they do not feel the same way?????????????

• Firstly, accept that 'yeah i love this person'. You know why? because you can not heal a thing by saying its not there. Denial is a prison of self-deception. So you have to accept that.
•  Realize that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If someone is not interested in you it is in your best interest to find someone who does love and adore you for who you are. Know that you are worth it, and there are plenty of people who love you. Never settle for someone who is not treating you and respecting you the way you deserve. That will mean you settling for less.
• In my case, I know I deserve the best. I tell myself "He isn't worth my love, he's too blind to realize what he's doing to me so I guess that's that. For crying out loud, I am Priceless. He doesnt know what he's missing and by the time he realizes, i'm far gone".
• It's not about getting over a person, it's about feeling good about yourself. It's about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. If this other person doesn't feel the same way, it doesn't really matter. its such an unfortunate situation whereby you get to listen to no one but the you in you. So,'you' are the one that matter most here.
• Try and walk off. You'd wanna keep them around as friends but you can only stand on that if you're pretty strong and most times, this thing we call emotions are far more than the physical strength. Advice-Don't even give them the privilege of friendship because you'll suck yourself back into the delusion. Do things for yourself, keep busy, bury yourself in work and keep waiting for what you deserve. Don't do what I have done.
• It is strange when you are hurting from rejection, to hear someone say move on things will be fine. No matter how much you love him, he never loves you back. For all those wondering what went wrong Just stop wondering say it really aloud "HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO ME". Only when one stops chasing and pursing someone who doesn't love you, will you open the door to that perfect person who will love you back with the same intensity that you will love him.
• Try not to be in contact cos its almost like an addiction. You think that one little text or a call will do no harm but the pain when he doesn't reply or pickup your call will just make things worse. Tell yourself you're stronger than this.
• There is one more thing I can recommend. There are times when you feel very weak and feel you need to talk to that other person even though they may have just hurt you again, you don't know why you want to talk to them, you just do. Like i said, its like an addiction. I've been able to get by these weak moments by writing down exactly what I'm feeling at the time, it comes out in a jumble of feelings and thoughts, some not so pleasant, but in the end it actually helps and I don't feel to call the person.
• Actually, you cant get over someone you love just like that but trust me, you can try to move on and give space to fall in love again.